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The Manchu marriage custom was developed from a group marriage system, an even marriage system, and finally developed to a monogamy. The matchmaker goes to the woman to talk about relatives, usually three times, a bottle of wine, so there is a cloud: "Can't achieve it, three bottles of wine." He also said: "The matchmaker is a scales, all rely on both ends." A blind date) is the man who looks at the daughter -in -law to the woman's house. The content of each other is nothing more than five aspects: door wind, wealth, talent, beauty and ugliness. "Change the cup", that is, the male family goes to the female house to give a family cooler. At the female house, the gift was placed on the incense case under the ancestral board of the west wall, and then the two of the two families kneeling and kneeling, and the wine was sacrificed to each other. After "changing the cup", the two are officially set up. Besides, marry. The Manchu people have a lot of rules, and they have a lot of marriage. From asking for marriage, to the end of the marriage, it is very complicated: "Ask marriage" is also called "asking days". The woman agreed that the matchmaker accompanied the man to send cloth, jewelry, meat, and wine to the female home, commonly known as "big tea". The day before the marriage, the woman had to send the companion's dowry to the man's house, commonly known as: "cross the cabinet". Marrying a relative is usually lively for three days: the first day is called "sound shed", the next day is "bright sedan", and the third day is married. Wearing when marrying: The groom is wearing a hat, wearing an arrow, a belt, and a red band; The person who went when he welcomed the relatives was a single number, and it was a double number. The car must rush back to the door of the man's house in the early morning, and stop at the door for a while, commonly known as "practice". When the bride got out of the sedan, the groom would lightly shoot three arrows towards the Cars curtain. This was the legacy of the ancient Manchus plundering marriage. When the bride got off the sedan, he wanted to spread the red felt, and stepped on the red felt to the table of heaven and earth. After worshiping the world, use a red felt to introduce a pair of newcomers into the cave. In front of the groom, when he arrived at the threshold, the groom picked the red hijab on the bride's head with an arrow pole (later changed to a hand or scale pole). When the bride and groom entered the new house, relatives and friends should throw grain grains on them to take the meaning of life. After entering the cave, the groom and groom began to sit, commonly known as "sitting blessing". The Manchu also has the custom of having trouble. The relatives and friends who attended the wedding sang the happy song "Pulling the empty". Its generally meaning was that the beautiful girl was married, and I wish you a white head to the old and happy life. The newcomer wants to drink "hand in the glass" in the cave, eat happy noodles, and taste the descendants. The relatives and friends of the onlookers also asked the bride to ask the bride in a two -word words: "Don't give birth?", And then answered by the welcoming mother -in -law: "Born", it means that he is born early and expensive. In the early morning of the next day, the bride wanted to worship the in -laws and uncle, and to keep the smoke and ask, and the "divide size"; three or seven days after marriage, the bride had to return to her mother's house, commonly known as "back to the door". Hui's wedding customs: The male family sees a girl, first invite a elder or virtue of ethics or good arguments in relatives and friends, bring tea, four -color bags, clothing (2 pieces) to the female house to mention relatives Commonly known as "tea" or "sending a question", "sending tea". If the business discussion, if the female family agrees with this family affairs, it will leave a gift, otherwise it will be returned immediately. Sometimes the woman's family could not give it on the spot, and the two sides agreed to postpone the answer. When the male family settled in a long time waiting for a long time, he asked someone to bring a gift to the door to urge the question and call it "send the urging bag". After the female family agreed, the two parties jointly negotiated to select each of the matchmakers, and set the specific date to prepare the engagement ceremony, commonly known as "gifts", "down tea" or "down tea". The man sent cosmetics such as tea, meat prescription, clothing and other things, brain powder flowers, red and green head ropes and other cosmetics. A plate of dried fruit (walnut jujube) in Xining area, wet fruit (cooked dyeing and dyeing, mixed with preserved fruit, rock sugar residue, and honey), called "pumping fruit tea", which means this The door is determined. After receiving these gifts, the man was distributed to all relatives to share, and objectively told them the information of his son had set a lifelong event. In other areas, the gifts of tea are divided into small pieces and given relatives. For a period of time after marriage to before marriage, if you encounter the Ramadan Cald Festival and Gurbang Festival, the male family must bring gifts to the female home according to their own financial resources. Essence After the engagement, the two parties negotiated the specific date for lottery gifts, commonly known as "gifts". At that time, the man invited the matchmakers and adult men under his family to go home and entertain a little, that is, bring a gift to the female home to give gifts. The severity of Cai Li generally depends on the women's wishes and the financial resources of the man. Some women also have a gift list. Cai Li mainly includes tea, clothing, jewelry, current models, lamb, etc., which are generally called "dry ceremony".当送礼的人们端着盘子、提着包袱来到女家时，女方家中的人在长辈带领下出门热情欢迎，并以干果碟子、放有一对红枣的奶茶、糖饺儿包子、熬肉米饭、 The rich foods such as hot pot are treated guests. The man gave gifts. After receiving the tea returned, the male family was also divided into small pieces and sent relatives to share. The next step is to hold a wedding according to the agreed days. The day before the wedding, the day before the wedding, you must read a "Haiting" to pray for the blessing of Allah and the ancestor of the ancestors; on this day, the man's family set up a tarpaulin in the courtyard patio and invite friends and relatives. marriage. On this day, the man's family wanted to invite people who helped cook the special division of labor. They were called "invitations to run", and a person who sent relatives, married, and horses was also selected one by one at this time. At the same time, the groom and bride also have to do a bathing ceremony (making a big net) and a repair and opening ceremony. One day when the wedding was held, the groom, with his father, uncle, uncle, Ah, brother, and other related people. Under the leadership of the matchmaker, there were gifts such as walnuts, jujube, meat, rice, and rice in the large market. The wedding ceremony was held "Nikahashi" one by one. After sitting on the big cymbal, the master and guest began to read "Nikaha". The first item was the master of the groom who was kneeling "or sitting" on the kneeling "or sitting" on the kneeling. Those who answered them are the next item; those who do not answer will be admitted until they learn on the spot. In the second item, Ah A asked about the name of a newcomer (that is, the nickname), and asked them and the father of both sides if they agreed with the marriage. After getting a positive answer, they announced that the marriage was in the teaching method and said in public in public in public. "Buy Hai Ri" money (a religious gift ". The third item, all of them were crispy, and Ah Er used the Arabian to read the marriage certificate of the marriage certificate. After reading it, everyone prayed. In the last one, Grandma withdrew the walnut jujube. The children asked the groom to make money, ask for tears, and break the money. The woman's family set up a banquet to entertain guests. Xi Sanke left, and the male family had two married people who married a plate of flowers, a hijab (or a Pa ", a set of clothes, etc., commonly known as" wrapping ". Go to the female house to welcome her. After having a meal, the bride's dressing stopped, she wrapped it strictly with red felt, and her elder brother was sent to the immediately, and then with the elders, brothers, 妯娌, two who sent relatives, a horse -pressed horse, a horse -pressed horse, a horse -pressed horse. The boy and a child in charge of the box key accompanied the two to marry a pro -pro -relative team. They were mighty and escorted the bride and dowry to the man's house. Before the bride came out, a bowl of milk splashed a bowl of milk on the horseshoe and its surroundings, which was called "white milk". At the door of the man's house, a woman ushered in the milk. "". When the bride went to the doorway, the groom stepped on the roof to step on a few feet, hoping to make his wife, and the marriage was solid. When removing dowry, the child of Lama's crowd can get a paid called "Crown Cars". If the male family does not give or pay too little, they will not move dowry or enter the seat until they are satisfied. In Zhongzhong, Hualong and other places, a person who welcomed his family would live on the male house all night. During the meantime, the new son -in -law's uncle, uncle and other homes wanted to slaughter the sheep for a table and took turns to the banquet. The bride entered the cave in the call of people's call. After entering the cave room, the people who came to bed came. In some places in some places, the banquet singers sang "Congratulations to the Song" and came to congratulate the bed and sang a banquet song for the owner. When the bed was in trouble to a certain time, the bride's sister (or sister -in -law or sent his relatives) brought night meals and walnut jujube to the cave room, pressed the walnut jujube to the corner of the felt, and each was put in the arms of the bride. Children are full. In some places, two newcomers are invited to drink a bowl of milk with two cooked red dates before going to bed. There are also red dates, peanuts, melon seeds, etc. in the corners of the new quilt, which means that they have noble children early, and they borrow old. At this time, the groom wants to send some money to the beds to thank him. On the second day of the wedding, the groom and bride would get up early in the morning to take a bath, accompanied by the accompanying guest (best man). The groom went to the female mother and mother -in -law and the relatives related to the elders, "Sai Two", please (also known as back to the door). The dumplings are waiting for the new son -in -law, indicating that the marriage is successful. The bride was accompanied by marrying relatives, walked out of the cave room, and listened to the introduction of marrying relatives. After worshiping a person, the man gave the bride with a red paper called the "sealing tube". This money was called "worship and making money". At noon, the guests who came to the happy seats came. During the meeting, the groom accompanied the guests and kept going to various tables to say "the two eyes"; the bride also had to come to salute to the guests of various tables, and the guests had to give money to the bride. As the saying goes: "There is no size for three days for the banquet." On this day, the guests who came to eat the table would "make a noise" to catch any two of the father -in -law, uncle, or uncle, wipe a face in ink, or give it to give it, or give it to the ink, or give it to give it. He put on a pair of glasses made of radishes, a straw hat, and piercing through the leather jacket, and then poured him on the donkey (or cow), swimming on the roadway, helping happy events. The next day, the mother -in -law and the female relatives of the mother's family came to the male family to recognize their relatives and visit her daughter. Finally, I went back to the door and disassembled. The hospitality "running" (associated) for the marriage is to celebrate the happy events. Make with a sober mind, a weak mood, and do what you should do.
The Manchu marriage custom was developed from a group marriage system, an even marriage system, and finally developed to a monogamy. The matchmaker goes to the woman to talk about relatives, usually three times, a bottle of wine, so there is a cloud: "Can't achieve it, three bottles of wine." He also said: "The matchmaker is a scales, all rely on both ends." A blind date) is the man who looks at the daughter -in -law to the woman's house. The content of each other is nothing more than five aspects: door wind, wealth, talent, beauty and ugliness. "Change the cup", that is, the male family goes to the female house to give a family cooler. At the female house, the gift was placed on the incense case under the ancestral board of the west wall, and then the two of the two families kneeling and kneeling, and the wine was sacrificed to each other. After "changing the cup", the two are officially set up. Besides, marry. The Manchu people have a lot of rules, and they have a lot of marriage. From asking for marriage, to the end of the marriage, it is very complicated: "Ask marriage" is also called "asking days". The woman agreed that the matchmaker accompanied the man to send cloth, jewelry, meat, and wine to the female home, commonly known as "big tea". The day before the marriage, the woman had to send the companion's dowry to the man's house, commonly known as: "cross the cabinet". Marrying a relative is usually lively for three days: the first day is called "sound shed", the next day is "bright sedan", and the third day is married. Wearing when marrying: The groom is wearing a hat, wearing an arrow, a belt, and a red band; The person who went when he welcomed the relatives was a single number, and it was a double number. The car must rush back to the door of the man's house in the early morning, and stop at the door for a while, commonly known as "practice". When the bride got out of the sedan, the groom would lightly shoot three arrows towards the Cars curtain. This was the legacy of the ancient Manchus plundering marriage. When the bride got off the sedan, he wanted to spread the red felt, and stepped on the red felt to the table of heaven and earth. After worshiping the world, use a red felt to introduce a pair of newcomers into the cave. In front of the groom, when he arrived at the threshold, the groom picked the red hijab on the bride's head with an arrow pole (later changed to a hand or scale pole). When the bride and groom entered the new house, relatives and friends should throw grain grains on them to take the meaning of life. After entering the cave, the groom and groom began to sit, commonly known as "sitting blessing". The Manchu also has the custom of having trouble. The relatives and friends who attended the wedding sang the happy song "Pulling the empty". Its generally meaning was that the beautiful girl was married, and I wish you a white head to the old and happy life. The newcomer wants to drink "hand in the glass" in the cave, eat happy noodles, and taste the descendants. The relatives and friends of the onlookers also asked the bride to ask the bride in a two -word words: "Don't give birth?", And then answered by the welcoming mother -in -law: "Born", it means that he is born early and expensive. In the early morning of the next day, the bride wanted to worship the in -laws and uncle, and to keep the smoke and ask, and the "divide size"; three or seven days after marriage, the bride had to return to her mother's house, commonly known as "back to the door".
Hui's wedding customs: The male family sees a girl, first invite a elder or virtue of ethics or good arguments in relatives and friends, bring tea, four -color bags, clothing (2 pieces) to the female house to mention relatives Commonly known as "tea" or "sending a question", "sending tea". If the business discussion, if the female family agrees with this family affairs, it will leave a gift, otherwise it will be returned immediately. Sometimes the woman's family could not give it on the spot, and the two sides agreed to postpone the answer. When the male family settled in a long time waiting for a long time, he asked someone to bring a gift to the door to urge the question and call it "send the urging bag". After the female family agreed, the two parties jointly negotiated to select each of the matchmakers, and set the specific date to prepare the engagement ceremony, commonly known as "gifts", "down tea" or "down tea". The man sent cosmetics such as tea, meat prescription, clothing and other things, brain powder flowers, red and green head ropes and other cosmetics. A plate of dried fruit (walnut jujube) in Xining area, wet fruit (cooked dyeing and dyeing, mixed with preserved fruit, rock sugar residue, and honey), called "pumping fruit tea", which means this The door is determined. After receiving these gifts, the man was distributed to all relatives to share, and objectively told them the information of his son had set a lifelong event. In other areas, the gifts of tea are divided into small pieces and given relatives. For a period of time after marriage to before marriage, if you encounter the Ramadan Cald Festival and Gurbang Festival, the male family must bring gifts to the female home according to their own financial resources. Essence After the engagement, the two parties negotiated the specific date for lottery gifts, commonly known as "gifts". At that time, the man invited the matchmakers and adult men under his family to go home and entertain a little, that is, bring a gift to the female home to give gifts. The severity of Cai Li generally depends on the women's wishes and the financial resources of the man. Some women also have a gift list. Cai Li mainly includes tea, clothing, jewelry, current models, lamb, etc., which are generally called "dry ceremony".当送礼的人们端着盘子、提着包袱来到女家时，女方家中的人在长辈带领下出门热情欢迎，并以干果碟子、放有一对红枣的奶茶、糖饺儿包子、熬肉米饭、 The rich foods such as hot pot are treated guests. The man gave gifts. After receiving the tea returned, the male family was also divided into small pieces and sent relatives to share. The next step is to hold a wedding according to the agreed days. The day before the wedding, the day before the wedding, you must read a "Haiting" to pray for the blessing of Allah and the ancestor of the ancestors; on this day, the man's family set up a tarpaulin in the courtyard patio and invite friends and relatives. marriage. On this day, the man's family wanted to invite people who helped cook the special division of labor. They were called "invitations to run", and a person who sent relatives, married, and horses was also selected one by one at this time. At the same time, the groom and bride also have to do a bathing ceremony (making a big net) and a repair and opening ceremony. One day when the wedding was held, the groom, with his father, uncle, uncle, Ah, brother, and other related people. Under the leadership of the matchmaker, there were gifts such as walnuts, jujube, meat, rice, and rice in the large market. The wedding ceremony was held "Nikahashi" one by one. After sitting on the big cymbal, the master and guest began to read "Nikaha". The first item was the master of the groom who was kneeling "or sitting" on the kneeling "or sitting" on the kneeling. Those who answered them are the next item; those who do not answer will be admitted until they learn on the spot. In the second item, Ah A asked about the name of a newcomer (that is, the nickname), and asked them and the father of both sides if they agreed with the marriage. After getting a positive answer, they announced that the marriage was in the teaching method and said in public in public in public. "Buy Hai Ri" money (a religious gift ". The third item, all of them were crispy, and Ah Er used the Arabian to read the marriage certificate of the marriage certificate. After reading it, everyone prayed. In the last one, Grandma withdrew the walnut jujube. The children asked the groom to make money, ask for tears, and break the money. The woman's family set up a banquet to entertain guests. Xi Sanke left, and the male family had two married people who married a plate of flowers, a hijab (or a Pa ", a set of clothes, etc., commonly known as" wrapping ". Go to the female house to welcome her. After having a meal, the bride's dressing stopped, she wrapped it strictly with red felt, and her elder brother was sent to the immediately, and then with the elders, brothers, 妯娌, two who sent relatives, a horse -pressed horse, a horse -pressed horse, a horse -pressed horse. The boy and a child in charge of the box key accompanied the two to marry a pro -pro -relative team. They were mighty and escorted the bride and dowry to the man's house. Before the bride came out, a bowl of milk splashed a bowl of milk on the horseshoe and its surroundings, which was called "white milk". At the door of the man's house, a woman ushered in the milk. "". When the bride went to the doorway, the groom stepped on the roof to step on a few feet, hoping to make his wife, and the marriage was solid. When removing dowry, the child of Lama's crowd can get a paid called "Crown Cars". If the male family does not give or pay too little, they will not move dowry or enter the seat until they are satisfied. In Zhongzhong, Hualong and other places, a person who welcomed his family would live on the male house all night. During the meantime, the new son -in -law's uncle, uncle and other homes wanted to slaughter the sheep for a table and took turns to the banquet. The bride entered the cave in the call of people's call. After entering the cave room, the people who came to bed came. In some places in some places, the banquet singers sang "Congratulations to the Song" and came to congratulate the bed and sang a banquet song for the owner. When the bed was in trouble to a certain time, the bride's sister (or sister -in -law or sent his relatives) brought night meals and walnut jujube to the cave room, pressed the walnut jujube to the corner of the felt, and each was put in the arms of the bride. Children are full. In some places, two newcomers are invited to drink a bowl of milk with two cooked red dates before going to bed. There are also red dates, peanuts, melon seeds, etc. in the corners of the new quilt, which means that they have noble children early, and they borrow old. At this time, the groom wants to send some money to the beds to thank him. On the second day of the wedding, the groom and bride would get up early in the morning to take a bath, accompanied by the accompanying guest (best man). The groom went to the female mother and mother -in -law and the relatives related to the elders, "Sai Two", please (also known as back to the door). The dumplings are waiting for the new son -in -law, indicating that the marriage is successful. The bride was accompanied by marrying relatives, walked out of the cave room, and listened to the introduction of marrying relatives. After worshiping a person, the man gave the bride with a red paper called the "sealing tube". This money was called "worship and making money". At noon, the guests who came to the happy seats came. During the meeting, the groom accompanied the guests and kept going to various tables to say "the two eyes"; the bride also had to come to salute to the guests of various tables, and the guests had to give money to the bride. As the saying goes: "There is no size for three days for the banquet." On this day, the guests who came to eat the table would "make a noise" to catch any two of the father -in -law, uncle, or uncle, wipe a face in ink, or give it to give it, or give it to the ink, or give it to give it. He put on a pair of glasses made of radishes, a straw hat, and piercing through the leather jacket, and then poured him on the donkey (or cow), swimming on the roadway, helping happy events. The next day, the mother -in -law and the female relatives of the mother's family came to the male family to recognize their relatives and visit her daughter. Finally, I went back to the door and disassembled. The hospitality "running" (associated) for the marriage is to celebrate the happy events.
Make with a sober mind, a weak mood, and do what you should do.